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So... this topic. Who thinks about it? When? Men more than women? At different times than women? How much does a good or bad sex life affect a relationship?

In my opinion... I think everyone thinks about it. A lot. I think some people do more than others, of course... but I happen to not necessarily think that men ALWAYS do more than women. I know a lot of women (myself included) that think about it more than some men I'm sure do. I also think that a good or bad sex life definately affects a relationship. If you're not in-tune or as attracted to your significant other "in that way" as you could be, or very much... thats not good.

I think sex in a relationship is extremely important! I really do! If you're not in-sync with your partner in this way... can a relationship last? I don't know the answer to that for other people... But, for myself, the answer is no. Not because sex is everything, cuz its not. Rather because I've had boyfriends that I wasn't in-sync with, and it wasn't too fun. I think somehow it just casts a shadow over the other parts of your relationship that are okay. I just plain don't like having the sexual chemistry w/someone! But, on the other hand, when you do have the sexual chemistry with someone- it is good! It is nice, you usually like the same things, etc... You want it when the other person wants it (for the most part...), even when you're out at night you both may look at each other and know its time to go! Or on a certain night, in the morning, whatever it may be!

In addition... what ways do you like to do it? Morning? Night? Mid-day? In bed? Random places? For me... yes, yes, yes, yes, and yes. :) Now, speaking of....