Quotes

"Life is too short to be anything but happy. So kiss slowly. Love deeply. Forgive quickly. Take chances and never have regrets. Forget the past but remember what it taught you."
(Heidi Lynnski Theory: What is the point in life is we cannot be happy? Does kissing make us happy? Yep. Does loving with all you have make us happy? Yep. So, why, then are some people not doing it? It takes taking chances to make it big in life. Scary to take chances and have faith that something will be okay? DUH! Of course! But worth it in the long run? Yep. Is it hard to forget the past and move on? Yep. So why not LET IT GO, accept that without if you wouln't be where you are now... and be @ peace with knowing that the bad made it possible to have good in the present and future!)

"Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future."

(Heidi Lynnski Theory: No one is going to be able to change the past. It's done, it's over with, and you can either dwell on it and let is stress you about what you could have done differently; or you can acccept that it happened, and through good or bad you made it, learned, conquered, and are a better person now for having had it. If someone wronged you in the past, are you still hanging on to it? Letting it eat you up and bother you? Why? How is that helping you? Forgive and forget the bad... and actually be happy that you're stronger for making it through it and thank that it happened! Most people benefit MORE after forgiving and realizing that its okay to accept and move on! You'll make the future so much brighter with coming to terms and making peace with it for yourself. And if someone "wronged" you... you can still be happy w/that person, b/c in the long run, you did it together. You had hard, tough, rough times... and you came made it! And came through TOGETHER!)

"I would rather fight with you than make love with anyone else."

(Heidi Lynnski Theory: Well... I know it, but after a recent conversation with my married friend, I realized it even more. Every couple is going to argue. Every relationship is going to have bumps and be hard. You are going to be so mad at that person some days that you won't even be able to think straight. You are going to wonder if its all really worth it. But besides that... you'll have by your side your lover, your best friend, the one you care about and love more than anyone else that way in the world. You'll know you have something special... and even though the thought will indeed cross your mind every now and then to leave... Know that it happens to every couple, in every relationship. I know I'd rather fight with the one I love, my best friend... than EVER have the small amount of pleasure from someone else. It just wouldn't be the same, now would it?)