Men Relying

"Many men believe that relying on other people, especially emotionally, is a sign of weakness; but until a man can get honest about the fact that he has needs, and what they are, it will be very difficult for him to be intimate with you."

Hmm, this sounds familiar to me. Not in a good or bad way, but in a true way. I think this is definitely very true. It is a quote from Dr Phil from his book, 'Love Smart'. I think a lot of people have a hard time admitting they would rely on someone for somethings in life. I think this is especially true with men, and I've seen it. They sometimes think because they've always done it alone, it can or should be done that way forever. Its hard to admit its nice to have someone to HELP you! Pride is at stake, change is at stake, and the fear of the unknown! So, men, just talk to your girl about this! All SHE probably wants is to feel she can and us helping! It is and will be win-win!

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