Have a SUCCESSFUL Relationship!

SUCCESSFUL Relationships- Long Term!
We all know relationships, especially good ones, take a lot of hard work. They take dedication and playing a two-way game. Here are some musts for having a good one. And who doesn't want this in life?!

· Chemistry (actual chemicals in both bodies that cause us to react in certain ways) (pheromones, oxyyocin, endorphins- making you miss them when they’re away, love to be in the same room w/them, etc)
· Respect- admire the other for their values, morals, and conduct
· Attention-give her/him flowers or something special, call just to say you love them, help them with things around the house;(FYI women want to feel cared for a loved and cherished- not just when you want to have sex or need something!
· Honesty- be truthful about whereabouts, thoughts, feelings
· Opening yourself- have passion, but when it starts to fade some days- do something else to be vulnerable to them
· Selflessness- considerations for your partners feelings and compromise
· Communication- be able to express yourself and listen to the other person.
· Appearance- take care of yourself like you did @ the beginning; dress up not just for special occasions
· Comfort- makes it lasting; when you can share in long-term involvement, overcome obstacles- you can’t get that with just anyone!
· Spend time apart- do things with the girls/guys once a week/month…
· Spend time with other couples- invite them over for dinner that you and yours cook; if you have kids all get together!
· Have date night once a week- reconnect, focus only on each other- bond!
· Appreciation- you get busy and used to each other and this goes right out the window; think of something daily your partner does and thank them for it, it’ll help you weather storms!
· Cuddle!
· Tell each other really personal things…. You’ll be able to read each other’s minds and finish each other’s sentences!