The Good Stuff

So, the thought seems obscure that some women don't constantly think about the things that've been plaguing my mind. My thoughts are constant with relationships, being an "almost" step-mom/mom someday, being successful in a career that I haven't determined if I like yet, doing it (yes- IT- sexy lexy), and wondering about the unplanned future... these are the things I classify as "the good stuff" (to quote a Kenny Chesney song title). Although not necessarily all good, they all have the possibilities of making my life "good". Does that make sense? The problem, or solution, I guess, is how to get them all to be good?! Well, some un-canned, in-a-nutshell solutions would be.... open, honest communication for both in the relationship (but thats too easy to do!)... both parties realizing what they have and being dedicated to each other... wanting whats best for your step child, and not being okay with things that you know arent the best (but keeping your mouth shut when you have to)...learning from your experiences on how to be (one day) a GREAT mom... figuring out what you like about your job, and why, and how to advance or grow to be doing what you love (and hopefully making TONS of money at it!)... loving to "do it" with your significant other...loving to fantasize about the sex with your partner, and carrying it out (oh yeah, we'll go there with this blog!)... hoping for the best for the future and never giving up on your dreams for it, and not thinking negatively about the past, but being a realist too!