With You!

Hey, oh
Let me tell you no
Oh baby
Trying to decide, trying to decide
If I, really want to go out tonight (Besides girls' night like, once a week or month- NOT too fun!)
I never used to go out, without you (And its not quite so fun... but nothing else to do!)
I'm not sure I remember how to (Feel like you're just going out to meet guys- hit on ya nonstop)
I'm gonna be, gonna be late
But, all my girls gonna have to wait (And they get mad @ me cuz I take forever sometimes)
Cause, I don't know if I like my outfit
I tried everything in my closet (What you wore w/him is not always same as wearing w/o him)
Nothing feels right when
I'm not with you (Feels like I'm someone I'm not, like a single Sex and The City woman)
Sick of this dress and these Jimmy Choos (Hate dressin up to feel like I must impress when out)
Taking them off, cause I feel a fool
Trying to dress up, when I'm missing you
I'ma step out of this lingerie (Cuz is someone else gonna see it?!?! ha)
Curl up in a ball with something Hanes
In that I lay, with nothing but, your T-Shirt on
Oh, with nothing but, your T-Shirt on
Hey, gotta be strong, gotta be strong (I AM!!!)
But, I'm really hurting now that your gone (When we're doin our own thing for the night-space)
I thought maybe I'd do some shopping (Nope...want YOU to see the outfits!) :) (fashion show)
But, I didn't get pass the door and
Now I don't know, now I don't know
If I'm ever gonna let you go
And I couldn't even leave my apartment (But I must cuz I'd drive myself crazy! hence goin out)
I'm stripped down, torn up about it
Nothing feels right when I'm not with you (SO TRUE- my other half is missing!)
Sick of this dress and these Jimmy Choos
Taking them off, cause I feel a fool
Trying to dress up when I'm missing you (And wonderin if you'd like me outfit, think I look hot!)
I'ma step out of this lingerie (And its sexy, let me tell YOU!)
Curl up in a ball and something Hanes (Watchin a movie I don't wanna see w/o you)
In that I lay, with nothing with your T-Shirt on
Oh, with nothing but, your T-Shirt on
Trying to decide, trying to decide (Peer pressure is a biotch)
If I really want to go out tonight
I couldn't even leave my apartment
I'm stripped down, torn up about it
Nothing feels right when I'm not with you
Sick of this dress and these Jimmy Choos (Wish I had Jimmy Choos, but we'll pretend)
Taking them off, cause I feel a fool (Trying to look good for myself?)
Trying to dress up when I'm missing you (Feel like I'm faking! Trying to look good for others?)
I'ma step out of this lingerie
Curl up in a ball and something Hanes
In bed I lay
Hey, hey
Nothing feels right when I'm not with you (Does it when you're not w/me?! I but NOT!)
Sick of this dress and these Jimmy Choos
Taking them off, cause I feel a fool
Trying to dress up when I'm missing you
I'ma step out of this lingerie
Curl up in a ball and something Hanes
In bed I lay, with nothing with your T-Shirt on
Oh, with nothing but, your T-Shirt on
Let me tell you know
With nothing but, your T-Shirt on (Then I'll come over and see you or you come see me!)

So true!

Without somebody nothin aint worth a dime. Livin on love.

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Sperm donor vs. DAD!!!

What makes a good father? I’ve talked about being a mom, step-mom, families… but not just completely about what it takes to be a good dad and what women (or at least I) want in the qualities of a good father! I read a quote that’s totally true… women don’t just want a sperm donor!!! J But, in saying that… WHY do some men, besides it just being their personalities, think it’s okay to just get the woman pregnant and that’s their only job. Like leaving the child raising solely to the mom is right, good, or beneficial for anyone? Most women, at least the ones I know, including me, want to be with someone that would be a great dad. Anyone guys out there can father a child… but it makes it who they are to be a good DAD! Agree? Disagree? Most women want what’s best for their children or step-children, and that means having a partner in crime to raise the kids! Two heads and hearts are better than one! So for all you dads out there…be a good one!!! I was blessed to have a great dad… one that would do things with me, help me, discipline me (I hated that at the time!), ask me about my day, and love me. He would do anything for me. They say that girls want to marry men that are like their fathers… and I want to marry a guy that’s the same, a great dad to his kids (along with a great husband to his wife!).

What qualities does a great dad possess? Here’s a few…
· Have fun with them! Smile and be friendly.
· Discipline along with the mother… make parenting a partnership so the child has a solid front of support
· You’re a provider… in many ways, not only financially, but emotionally
· Say “I love you” and “I’m proud of you”… affection and warmth
· Be a supportive teacher through what you do and say. Kids will not grow up and automatically make the right decisions and know right from wrong- they need to be taught! You will make mistakes, and so will they… just make sure that you or they are learning from the mistakes and not making them over and over!
· Make traditions with your child solely, and as your family as a whole
· Respect your children’s mother. Mutual respect, no matter if married or not, will show you can lead by example. Children will see this and it will greatly influence the way they will be in a relationship and as a parent
· Set achievable goals for them
· Make the time and commit the energy to learn the skills you will need to be a caring, empathetic, and competent dad. Remember you and your wife/the mom are teaching each other along the way too, and the learning never ends! Kids are wonderful teachers!
· Read to your children! Kids learn best by learning and doing… they will grow up this day and promote a lifetime of personal and career growth
· Eat together as a family. This will add structure to a busy day and offers a chance for listening, advice, and togetherness! (I, by the way, LOVE this part of a day!!!! J- it’s my favorite!)

If you are a dad and already possess these qualities… congratulations…. You’re amazing! You have an unbelievable amount of responsibility and you should be so proud! Good job. Your child will greatly benefit and thank you one day!

Remember: Being a parent is one of the most rewarding yet challenging jobs you can have. No one is born being a natural mom or dad; these skills are learned, and some take more time than others!

Darius Rucker... good lyrics!

Darius Rucker, who has my new favorite CD, titled “Learn to Live”, has some amazing songs with amazing lyrics that I love! I copied some lyrics’ excerpts that I like, seem meaningful to me- something that I either feel I would say… want to hear said to me… think about the future… want in my life!

Baby I apologize

I never meant to make you cry

But there ain’t no doubt, we can work it out yeah

Cuz I’m gonna be around
Don’t worry baby

I ain’t no maybe

Rain or Shine

This Love of mine is for you

Let my arms remind you

I’ll always be beside you

Holdin’ on until this ride is through

So away we go, down that forever road

Baby as our lives unfold

There’s no telling where we’ll go

But as far as I can see, it’ll be you and me

Just the way it’s supposed to be

It ain’t gonna be easy

We’ll both make big mistakes

But if you love me, trust me

We’ve got what it takes

Now…

Don't think I don't have regrets

Don't think it don't get to me

You gotta live to learn

You gotta crash and burn

You gotta make some stances

And take some chances

You gotta live and love
And take all life has to give

You gotta live and learn

So you can learn to live

I did some things that i wasn't really proud of

Sometimes life just got the best of me

I found me a woman who loves me just for me

All those mistakes I thought that I was making

Led me right here to you sittin' on my knee

Why do we make our mistakes, and constantly blame one another?

What can I do while I'm here to make someone's life better?

Don’t move

Baby Don’t move

I just want to take this all in

The moonlight dancing off your skin

Our time. Lets take our time

I just want to look in your eyes and catch our breath

Cuz I just got this feeling

The thought of forever

What if this was that moment

That chance worth taking

History in the making

Cause I've got a roof over my head,

the woman I love laying in my bed

And it's alright, alright

I've got shoes under my feet

Forever in her eyes staring back at me

And it's alright, alright

And I've got all I need

And it's alright by me

It may be a simple life, but that's okay

If you ask me baby, I think I've got it made

When I lay down at night I thank the Lord above

For giving me everything I ever could dream of

His wife gives him a kiss and says

It gonna be OK
It won’t be like this for long

This phase is gonna fly by

If you can just hold on

It won’t be like this for long
Yeah this phase is gonna fly by

Please Lord, I'm begging you

Don't let me go like this

There's so much left that I wanna do

So much I don't wanna miss

I’m gonna work like I don’t need the money

I’m gonna laugh like I’m not afraid to cry

I’m gonna dance like nobody’s watchin’

I’m gonna love while I still got the time

Lovin’ me hasn’t been easy on you

I don’t know why, but I know you still do

No more excuses and no more me doing things wrong

Life is too short, baby, I’ve wasted ours for too long

And baby from now on...

If you're a man like me who's good at leaving

if you like your space and you love your freedom

Dont see yourself as ever settlin down

or your whole world being tossed around

Be wary of a woman

A woman so fine

Don’t wanna change you

loves u just right

Makes u feel like a man inside

Sometimes she’ll make you cry

Till you don’t know what your doin

You’re out of control

Forget about leavin your heart won’t go

If don’t like that u better run and hide

And be wary of a woman like mine
She’ll make you laugh when you feel like cryin

make you wanna live when u feel like dying

So if u like living in the dark

Just walk away you’re gonna lose your heart

Be wary of a woman

A woman so fine

Don’t wanna change you

Loves u just right
Makes u feel like a man inside

Turn HIM on!

10 ways to turn on the man… in bed!!!:
These are just a few ideas…I’ve got a few more up my sleeve, but we’ll save those for a later time! ;)
1. Talk dirty (kinky!- moan, say his name, talk about what you like)
2. Tell each other or write down fantasies
3. Do it in the shower
4. Be submissive
5. Use toys/handcuffs/scarfs
6. Tatoo- on “those parts”… or a “tramp stamp” on your back
7. Have quickies
8. Dress up
9. Pretend you’re someone else or with someone else and act out the parts
10. Go on your lunch break to the mall and venture into the family restroom or dressing room
11. Take dirty pictures during the day to send to him
12. Text or email what you want to do to him later… and what you want him to do to you
13. Show him how you can touch yourself
14. Strip for him… and don’t let him touch you right away
15. Lay him down or have him stand above you and you lick…

What are some that YOU like to use?

Wow

According to The National Marriage Repurt at Rutgers University, the number one reason men don't commit is that they know they can get sex without getting married.
Wow... If that's not enough to about make ya sick. Who even wants to be with a guy that only cares about or wants that? Ick. And why is it so hard for men to commit? If the possible girl isn't great all around, then I can see it. But, come on, figure it out guys... Which girls LOVE to go all the time, be with their single friends, party, get male attention?! Then don't pick those! And don't some guys, unlike this statistic, want more out of life then just sex?! You can have great sex and be married or engaged or in a serious relationship too! Some of us don't change like others!

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Pizza

"Love isn't the pizza guy, it doesn't deliver."
How true!!

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