"How many of us are having great sex with people we're ashamed to introduce to our friends?"

To take a quote from Carrie on Sex and the City... Well? How many of us out there are or have actually done this or are doing it?! . Good, bad, a proud moment (or NOTTTT!)... it has happened to a lot of us.

We're all adults... we know this happens. But the question is- SHOULD it matter?! Should it just be that it is either okay, or not okay? I would say that if you're wanting to do it, then its okay. Who cares about what other think! But, is it a double standard that men can do it and feel like its no big deal... but if women do it they are looked at like they should feel bad or ashamed!?

Nude pics

So... I have a friend... she had nude pics taken of her! Now, as of yesterday, they're up online!!! Is this something that is apparently happening more and more around our society? From watching Sex and The City on a regular basis lately... I would say that this is definately something thats happening with people quite a bit! As for me, I'd do (or, have done... ;)...) the picture-taking thing, okay as well as maybe the video-taping thing! But, in my experience, I, of course, would recommend only doing it with somebody you feel extremely comfortable with and can trust 100%! You don't want to end up like my friend with her nakedness all online! Any other ideas of if this is okay... or ways to make it work w/o causing problems? Sorry to my friend but its been the hot-topic of the day now since hearing her news! :)