Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Aiming to please...

This topic came up a few weeks ago.... to those that are married or in long relationships, its probably been a while... yes, THAT with someone different/new has been a while. How would you/should you feel? Do? Act? Afterwards? Shoot... how to even know how to get down to it?! Are there feelings involved? Or just a one-night, drunk thing? Or... both?! ha. But, in all reality.... this happens.

RELAX!!!!! 1st word of advice! If you are, you must know that they are to. I promise. I could tell ya stories about this, but... I wont! :) Feelings or no feelings involved, it doesn't exactly matter... go into it trying NOT to be self-conscious (easier said than done). Just go into it thinking you're there to enjoy yourself and have fun... Not about how you look without anything on, or what to say or do afterwards (we haven't even gotten to what to say or not to say DURING). The other person is just as nervous so that time is probably going to be a little off....

Practice makes perfect so I guarantee that the next time... or 2.... will be more comfortable and easier to know what you like, the other likes, and it will ALLLLL fall into place. :)

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